know thyself

Remember the java coaching mentioned in a previous post? P is senior to me, has sound knowledge of Java and is a very good manager. He is leading the initiative. P came up to me today to talk.

P: Hey, I have the habit of barging into conversations and stating my views. Its one of my weaknessed. Do you... find it irritating?

(I left a previous session when P starting talking to my class, and generally do not have my happy face on when he starts to speak)

Me: (with a smile) To be honest, I was irritated the first couple of times. I understand now you did not mean to interrupt me. I liked it when you gave the examples today.

P: Great! Thanks. Good to know.


This conversation could have taken a completely different turn if P were not aware of his behaviour or I had confronted him and not listen to what he had to say.